What is Relational Aggression (RA)?
Relational aggression is described as any behavior that is intended to harm someone by damaging or manipulating relationships with others (Crick & Grotpeter, 1995). Unlike other types of bullying, relational aggression is not as overt, or noticeable as physical aggression. However, the effects can be long lasting. Studies have shown that males tend to use more physical aggression and victimization than females. Both boys and girls intend to inflict harm but there are differences in how they express these feelings. Females tend to use more covert forms of aggression to express their anger. Many feel that our society places value on girls “being nice” and teaches codes of behavior about what is appropriate. These expectations can lead to finding more discreet ways to express feelings. While boys tend to be more direct and confront others or even get into physical fights, girls tend to avoid direct confrontation and instead tend to talk behind one’s back and spread rumors and try to devel
