Where is the Honor in Honor Killing?
Every once in a while we hear of an “honor killing” carried out by a family member against one of their own. Kawthar’s article about an Iranian father who stoned his daughter to death, for bringing “dishonor” to him and to his family, is a case in point. The girl may, or may not, have consorted with a man without the father’s approval, but he took it upon himself to restore his “honor” in the cruelest way possible, by taking the life of his own flesh and blood. How is it that people come to believe in such things? And the Muslim world is not the only place where such thinking abounds. You could be riding a subway or a bus in a modern American city, and you make the mistake of looking at a young man in the wrong way. He pulls out a gun and shoots you in the head for “disrespecting” him, simply by looking at him in a way that, in his mind, demeaned his sense of “honor.” A lot of times you see this kind of thinking among the poor and among the uneducated, but not always. If you are poor a
