How can I help a friend in an abusive dating relationship?
1. Tell them that you care Criticizing others’ relationships will make them defensive and unwilling to listen so be sure to explain your position – you are concerned about them and you care. Do not be judgmental: explain that your friend is not to blame for this situation and help your friend recognize that the abuser’s excuses are not okay, violence and emotional abuse are wrong no matter what. 2. Tell them that you are scared for their safety Many friends will not take you seriously unless you make it clear that you are scared for them. Help them think of ways to stay safe (for example: walk with them to and from school, have them come over to your house, do not let them go places alone) 3. Tell them that you will be there for them whenever they are ready to get help. You cannot make decisions for your friend because that is what their abuser does. Be supportive: a friend may want to stay in the relationship, or break up and get back together. If this is the case, do not tell them th
