What’s the harm of judging others?
Certainly by now we have covered several disadvantages of judging others. Being aware of where and when we’re judging others is a great first step in eliminating this habit. Judging or being judged is hurtful to any relationship. It disconnects us from feelings of love and that’s the key reason to consider a new strategy. When we’re judging people we don’t know well…or even at all we’re not being very kind. There’s sort of a cold, hard feeling that we carry with us. If we know the people and are around them, they will feel our judgments via our non-verbal behavior towards them. We’ve all done it. We’ve all felt it from others. Also, those of us who tend to judge others often find ourselves at the mercy of our own judgments and are therefore usually very, very hard on ourselves. If we’ve made a mental connection between people’s behavior and their inherent value, then we’re probably doing the same thing to ourselves and that’s hurtful! What are the benefits of suspending judgments & jus
