Who determines how much visitation is reasonable and fair?
When a court awards physical custody to one parent and “visitation at reasonable times and places” to the other, the parent with physical custody is generally in the driver’s seat regarding what is reasonable. This need not be bad if the parents cooperate to see that the kids spend a significant amount of time with each parent.Unfortunately, it all too often translates into little visitation time with the noncustodial parent, and bitter disputes over missed visits and inconvenience. To avoid such problems, many courts now prefer for the parties to work out a fairly detailed parenting plan (known as a parenting agreement) that sets the visitation schedule and outlines who has responsibility for decisions affecting the children. Or, for more about parenting agreements, see Child Custody: Building Parenting Agreements that Work, by Mimi Lyster (Nolo).
When a court awards physical custody to one parent and “visitation at reasonable times and places” to the other, the parent with physical custody is generally in the driver’s seat regarding what is reasonable. This need not be bad if the parents cooperate to see that the kids spend a significant amount of time with each parent. Unfortunately, it all too often translates into little visitation time with the noncustodial parent, and bitter disputes over missed visits and inconvenience. To avoid such problems, many courts now prefer for the parties to work out a fairly detailed parenting plan (known as a parenting agreement) that sets the visitation schedule and outlines who has responsibility for decisions affecting the children. Or, for more about parenting agreements, see Child Custody: Building Parenting Agreements that Work, by Mimi Lyster (Nolo).
When a court awards physical custody to one parent and “visitation at reasonable times and places” to the other, the parent with physical custody is generally in the driver’s seat regarding what is reasonable. This need not be bad if the parents cooperate to see that the kids spend a significant amount of time with each parent. Unfortunately, it all too often translates into little visitation time with the noncustodial parent, and bitter disputes over missed visits and inconvenience. To avoid such problems, many courts now prefer for the parties to work out a fairly detailed parenting plan (known as a parenting agreement) that sets the visitation schedule and outlines who has responsibility for decisions affecting the children.
When a court awards physical custody to one parent and “reasonable” visitation to the other, the parent with physical custody is generally in the driver’s seat regarding what is reasonable. This need not be bad if the parents cooperate to see that the kids spend a significant amount of time with each parent. Unfortunately, it sometimes translates into little visitation time with the noncustodial parent, resulting in disputes over missed visits and inconvenience. To avoid such problems, many courts now prefer for the parties to work out a fairly detailed parenting plan that sets the visitation schedule and outlines who has responsibility for decisions affecting the children. Or, for more about parenting agreements, see Child Custody: Building Parenting Agreements that Work, by Mimi Lyster (Nolo).
