Ok, I am love shy. Where is the cure?
There is no hard and fast remedy for this which will work in all cases. What works for one person may not be at all appropriate for another. There have been success stories. What you will need to do, is change the way you perceive the world of socialization, the way you experience other people in general. This is not easy. It takes time and effort to force your subconscious mind to react differently in social situations. For many people, education seems to be the key. Just learning how social interraction proceeds between normal people helps. Read stuff like Pilinski. Watch other people interacting, watch how long people maintain eye contact while conversing, read books on body language. The good news is that it is possible! We have on record a good many people who have managed to fix their life, have normalized their approach towards women, have had sex, and have had girlfriends and even families. Many of them have given us a lot of hints for things to do to help speed up the process.
